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Feb 23, 2021

When feeling discomfort in relation to your child - they are on the computer too long, you won't get to be on time, or they refuse to eat your well-balanced meal - lean into and underneath the discomfort. Instead of feeding the mental ideal of how things are supposed to go, take a moment to put yourself in your...


Feb 16, 2021

Creating a gratitude practice is BIG in the conscious parenting world, yet in reflecting on my early training in when to express gratitude, it felt more like an obligation. Someone gave me a gift, or did something for me and whether I liked it or not I was expected to say "thank you".   It became a learned habit rather...


Feb 9, 2021

Hearing the word innocence in adulthood, what comes up?
 
I imagine a curiosity, experiencing everything for the first time, innocent from conclusions or the meaning of anything.
 
Looking through my conditioned adult lens I imagine acting childish and relinquishing responsibility for being a good parent....


Feb 2, 2021

In my experience, it takes some courage to change old strategies. It is counter instinctual to go back into those very intense feelings that as a child I had worked so hard to get away from.

But also I recognize I must have stability in myself if I want to offer it to my child. That's why I created the Safe...